Married & cheating...

Beefalicious · 07-01-2009, 06:11 PM

You mite say I read to much books or watch too much Tv lol but...

Have you ever fell in love with someone who was married? were u ever in a position where a man promised you he would leave his wife and never does? (or vice versa) If you were dating someone and further in the relationship he/ she says I'm married... how fast would you leave?

Mz K · Mz K

Depends what kind of married we're talking...if he is still with her or if he left but never got a divorce.

As for the other question no marriage scares me
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Beefalicious · Beefalicious

yah but even if he didn't get a divorce in the eyes of da law hes still married!

Mz K · Mz K

marriage isn't about "law" it's about a feeling, what you share everyday in front of god....not what the piece of paper says...That's my definition....so it wouldn't matter to me some people don't go through divorce cause it'stoo expensive as well

Shana B · Shana B

Im too jealous to agree to be a mistress as for the latter it depends on how far the relationship has gone and whether i trust him
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Caribbean Royalty · Caribbean Royalty

no no no no no nono If a man says his married whilst ur in a relationship thats absolutely disgusting.

if a man tells you hes married and you still get with him thats disgusting as well.

Any person who has the audacity to that and know the consequences that they are breaking up a family is a monster. A vile monster.

Even if the couple is in the process of getting a divorce it is right to wait until everything is final, even then the couples must act responsibly ensuring they are doing whats best for the children and considering each others feelings.

There are no laws on this. But if you dont have any morals you shouldnt even be in a relationship and if you think its right to be with a man when hes married especially if his wife loves him and they have kids then im sorry but what goes around comes back around and I htruly hope it does.

The only case where this is right is if the mans wife has been missing for more than 3 years which i believe counts as separated anyway.

Shana B · Shana B

Lmao cr your so young...You stil have alot to learn...like mk said its jus a peice of paper
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Caribbean Royalty · Caribbean Royalty

Originally Posted by Shana B

Lmao cr your so young...You stil have alot to learn...like mk said its jus a peice of paper
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Fair play but I dont like that idea. I'm not saying you cant fall love with someone whos married cause at most times u cant control your emotions. But you can control your actions. Why do something to fill your own desires when you know its gonna hurt someone else?

if the couple dont love each other anymore and I was in that situation I would actually tell the wife (no lie.) And I bet anyone $700 the wife would have a problem with it.

07-01-2009, 06:11 PM	#1
Married & cheating... You mite say I read to much books or watch too much Tv lol but... Have you ever fell in love with someone who was married? were u ever in a position where a man promised you he would leave his wife and never does? (or vice versa) If you were dating someone and further in the relationship he/ she says I'm married... how fast would you leave? __________________	About Poster By: Beefalicious Join Date: Mar 2006 Networking Rating: None Add To Favorite Share Views: 200

Caribbean Royalty	post #8 07-03-2009, 10:28 AM
Dhaz Immigrant Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: South of England Street Cred : 1 Posts: 1,774 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 18	Originally Posted by Shana B Lmao cr your so young...You stil have alot to learn...like mk said its jus a peice of paper ____________________ Wirelessly Posted (ZTE-C78/1.0 SMIT-Browser/2.0.0) Fair play but I dont like that idea. I'm not saying you cant fall love with someone whos married cause at most times u cant control your emotions. But you can control your actions. Why do something to fill your own desires when you know its gonna hurt someone else? if the couple dont love each other anymore and I was in that situation I would actually tell the wife (no lie.) And I bet anyone $700 the wife would have a problem with it.

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Mz K	post #2 07-01-2009, 06:26 PM
Dark Phoenix Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Can/usa Street Cred : 28 Posts: 40,813 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 42	Depends what kind of married we're talking...if he is still with her or if he left but never got a divorce. As for the other question no marriage scares me ____________________ Wirelessly Posted (BlackBerry9000/4.6.0.162 Profile/MIDP-2.0 Configuration/CLDC-1.1 VendorID/107)

Beefalicious	post #3 07-01-2009, 07:12 PM
Dhaz Star Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Lasalle,Qc Street Cred : 7 Posts: 15,239 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 13	yah but even if he didn't get a divorce in the eyes of da law hes still married!

Mz K	post #4 07-01-2009, 08:18 PM
Dark Phoenix Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Can/usa Street Cred : 28 Posts: 40,813 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 42	marriage isn't about "law" it's about a feeling, what you share everyday in front of god....not what the piece of paper says...That's my definition....so it wouldn't matter to me some people don't go through divorce cause it'stoo expensive as well

Shana B	post #5 07-01-2009, 09:17 PM
Dhaz Lone Ranger Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: In My Own Lil Worl Street Cred : 7 Posts: 14,088 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 43	Im too jealous to agree to be a mistress as for the latter it depends on how far the relationship has gone and whether i trust him ____________________ Wirelessly Posted (ZTE-C78/1.0 SMIT-Browser/2.0.0)

Caribbean Royalty	post #6 07-03-2009, 07:02 AM
Dhaz Immigrant Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: South of England Street Cred : 1 Posts: 1,774 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 18	no no no no no nono If a man says his married whilst ur in a relationship thats absolutely disgusting. if a man tells you hes married and you still get with him thats disgusting as well. Any person who has the audacity to that and know the consequences that they are breaking up a family is a monster. A vile monster. Even if the couple is in the process of getting a divorce it is right to wait until everything is final, even then the couples must act responsibly ensuring they are doing whats best for the children and considering each others feelings. There are no laws on this. But if you dont have any morals you shouldnt even be in a relationship and if you think its right to be with a man when hes married especially if his wife loves him and they have kids then im sorry but what goes around comes back around and I htruly hope it does. The only case where this is right is if the mans wife has been missing for more than 3 years which i believe counts as separated anyway.

Shana B	post #7 07-03-2009, 08:09 AM
Dhaz Lone Ranger Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: In My Own Lil Worl Street Cred : 7 Posts: 14,088 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 43	Lmao cr your so young...You stil have alot to learn...like mk said its jus a peice of paper ____________________ Wirelessly Posted (ZTE-C78/1.0 SMIT-Browser/2.0.0)