[Mz K]

You quickly get off and go to sleep – sometimes quickies are necessary. But are you quick all the time? For example, if your lady comes to bed draped with a silky teddy, do you still bust off in 5 minutes instead of taking your time with her as the nightie suggests? If so, you’re failing to pay attention and are a very selfish lover. Round 2 is a must sometimes! Take your time with her and try to hold off until she climaxes. Climaxing together is explosive and the felling of euphoria will overcome the both of you!

Very Little Foreplay – Woman have an assortment of erogenous zones. How many do you know? If the only space you visit during foreplay is obvious, then you’re hardly turning her on. Sure, women are moistened by touch, but if all you’re touching is in the southern hemisphere, and the moment you sense arousal you pounce, reconsider your routine. If you do this, not only are you boring, you lack sexual creativity. Next!

Beat It Up & Blow Your Back Out – again, sometimes a good, rough romp is necessary, but not all the time! While it’s probably great fun for a man to plunge in and go hard … literally, it’s not always fun for your lady or her lady parts. Pounding away at her inners every time you engage will get old for her and you’re leaving something to be desired. Good, slow love allows you to get to know her pleasure zones and is smashing good fun!

Porn Star Lover – fellas, we know you love flicks and have probably learned a skill or two watching them, but you don’t have to perform like a porn star in the bedroom! Tricks and turns are fun, but seriously, women don’t want to be twisted around the bed post while your pulling her hair, hollering obscenities and mimicking “Bruce the Body Breaker.” Sometimes it’s fun to role play, but if it’s your dream to be a porn star, audition. Or you can try and talk your lady into making a flick with you! This way she can get into character, unleash her inner porn queen and you can be porn stars TOGETHER. Get it?

Lack of Communication – if you’re the guy who pounces and prefers to do so without verbal interruption, you could be failing in the bedroom. While you’re girl is steady moaning and groaning, you’re thinking you’re doing all the right things. On the other hand, a good lover knows that if he can nearly silence a woman with his lovin’, she’s enjoying herself. A good lover also knows to ask if he’s doing the right things and what she likes! If you’re assuming she’s screaming and hollering because she likes it, she maybe doing it to get you off her, stat. Don’t assume you’re rocking her world because she’s moaning … may not be the case.

Okay fellas, sex isn’t everything but it’s vital to a realtionship. The woman you love may be with you because there are so many other things she adores about you, and she may not have the heart to say you need some sexual guidance. But carefully read the text above and if you’re guilty of one or more, you gotta step your love game all the way up! It’s a bruiser to the pride and ego but if you’re honest enough to admit you can do better, then all should come together quite nicely, and you’re lady will be more than pleased!

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p.s how many of you still think you're good in bed?

[Louca]

LOL yaaaaa....how good r u?

[killa]

Hmmmm.......This is a real good thread, makes you think about certain things you do already in bed
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[Tha Man]

i dont know, i never ask, have not seen faces of disgust yet so i reckon i do well

ok lemme comment properly now

You quickly get off and go to sleep

if this happens, rarely, i WILL go a 2nd round

Very Little Foreplay

i've been told by women i dealth with that they dont like foreplay so i juss go for goal

Beat It Up & Blow Your Back Out

daggar dat and stagga dat, yu zeet

Porn Star Lover

women i been with prefer 1 or 2 positions, they get annoyed when i position them every 2 or 3 minutes so i tone it down, 1 or 2 positions for 15-20 minutes

Lack of Communication

i dont talk, juss daggar

[Monte]

hehe good thread

[MrCee]

I plead the fifth but always take notes

Originally Posted by Tha Man

daggar dat and stagga dat, yu zeet

dude doesn't play around

[killa]

Yuh dun know
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[gifted chick]

Originally Posted by Tha Man

i dont know, i never ask, have not seen faces of disgust yet so i reckon i do well

ok lemme comment properly now


if this happens, rarely, i WILL go a 2nd round


i've been told by women i dealth with that they dont like foreplay so i juss go for goal


daggar dat and stagga dat, yu zeet

women i been with prefer 1 or 2 positions, they get annoyed when i position them every 2 or 3 minutes so i tone it down, 1 or 2 positions for 15-20 minutes

i dont talk, juss daggar

[GretoVerno]

wow good read Ms.K, thank you....always welcome tips

[Jessme2]

Good advice here for the guys..the BIGGEST and most important piece of advice I can say is to LISTEN to what SHE wants, and then DO IT. Don't be afraid that because she wants something different that you haven't been doing it right before. Don't be concerned that sometimes she wants nice and slow and sometimes to just a wham bam thank you ma'am. I don't think I'm the only lady who has ever enjoyed a 'quickie' just as much as a man can. And don't be offended and all if she says she doesn't like something..every woman has different tastes..different strokes for different folks, literally, lol!

Just remember that the biggest sex organ a human has is THEIR BRAIN.

I have some memories of some good times, and of some really bad ones, and while I may be celibate for quite a long time now because of something that happened, that doesn't mean that it will be forever. I had a bad thing happen and right now it is all I can do to make it through the day, but I know that there will come a day someday when a smile will make me tingle and that will be the day I know I have begun to heal.

[Mz K]

i agree with Jess

[MrCee]

Originally Posted by Jessme2

Good advice here for the guys..the BIGGEST and most important piece of advice I can say is to LISTEN to what SHE wants, and then DO IT. Don't be afraid that because she wants something different that you haven't been doing it right before. Don't be concerned that sometimes she wants nice and slow and sometimes to just a wham bam thank you ma'am. I don't think I'm the only lady who has ever enjoyed a 'quickie' just as much as a man can. And don't be offended and all if she says she doesn't like something..every woman has different tastes..different strokes for different folks, literally, lol!

Just remember that the biggest sex organ a human has is THEIR BRAIN.

I have some memories of some good times, and of some really bad ones, and while I may be celibate for quite a long time now because of something that happened, that doesn't mean that it will be forever. I had a bad thing happen and right now it is all I can do to make it through the day, but I know that there will come a day someday when a smile will make me tingle and that will be the day I know I have begun to heal.

oh my.....hang in there

[Jessme2]

Thanks. I need a bit of healing, so am doing what it takes to get me to Negril next month for the month of October. I just want those lovely waters to wash away some of the pain.

I am not sure how much longer I will still have my internet on, so just want to say thank you to everyone for being so wonderful. I feel I have made some real friends on here and will miss ya'll. I will keep posting everyday until I can no longer do so, and then when I am in Negril, will go to one of those internet cafes just to say hi and that I made it.

[Mz K]

and PLEASE enjoy it for me The water and A lot of meditation will help you heal yourself....I plan on doing the same but with my bath tub wish i had the money to go a deserted island

*hugs* come back to us in one piece

[Shana B]

Originally Posted by Tha Man

i dont know, i never ask, have not seen faces of disgust yet so i reckon i do well

ok lemme comment properly now


if this happens, rarely, i WILL go a 2nd round


i've been told by women i dealth with that they dont like foreplay so i juss go for goal


daggar dat and stagga dat, yu zeet

women i been with prefer 1 or 2 positions, they get annoyed when i position them every 2 or 3 minutes so i tone it down, 1 or 2 positions for 15-20 minutes

i dont talk, juss daggar

i wonder how old he is....women don like foreplay somethng wrong wid dem