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10-03-2009, 09:58 PM
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Questions and Answers Series 2
Here's the part 2. Read the problem and you guys come up with solution or advice to their problem.
Situation 1 : My boyfriend says he loves me, but I don't feel that excitement of just being with him like i have in past relationships. Is friendship enough for a romance? Situation 2 : The antics of one of my boyfriend's baby mama's is puttin ga straing on our relationship. I don't want to add to his stress, but I wish he would pay some romantic attention to me: prepare dinner, bring m flowers. What Should I Do? Situation 3: I'm cheating with ag uy who has a family. I know his woman is about to find out about us. I want to break up with him, but I'm emotionally attached and see him every day. How do I end this? Situation 4: My husband got laid off last year and is starting his own business, which will take time to become succesful. Meanwhile, I'm working overtime to cover our bills and he sits around playing video games. What should I do? What should they BOTH do? You can also share some of yours, past present
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10-12-2009, 01:24 AM |
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Originally Posted by Mz K
friendship is what you need for a romance...can friendship become romance...yes...this is true friendsip...give and take friendship....where there is complete and utter understanding...it is not a parasitical friendsip where there is a misunderstanding of each others needs....but a true frienship becoming a romance is the right road one should be taking...that spark that you're looking for or that isn't there is a search or comparison to something that you are used to...you have to ask yourself what is good about your situation and can you build...and ask yourself why all of those sparks died out in the first place...
[now practical advice...for her to be asking this question means she doesn't want to be in the relationship but she feels burdended with the responsibility of hurting a nice guy so she's willing to stay out of obligation if society sees it as the right choice...the first bit of advice is the answer to the question with no ulterior motives...taking every word at face value...this answer is for what i've come to understand about human nature]
Originally Posted by Mz K
you are his relationship and im pretty sure although the "baby mama" might be a nuissance relationships are two people not three...looking for an external reason should only come after trying all internal options...if he's not paying attention to you...its not the falt of his child or the childs mother...it is his choice...maybe asking what is actually bothering him instead of assuming might actually fix the problem...it is a two way street...show what you want to recieve and abondon jealousy....IMO
Originally Posted by Mz K
ummmmmm....wow...i'd say sacrifice your own happiness...there are kids involved....please...even though in an unhappy home there will always be problems...but this one could leave an impact that would disturb some children for time to come...so whatever the decision keep it adult and among adults...man has his own life going on...so maybe you are just a pass time attaching yourself to something that isn't yours....tooo many sides to this coin....but make sure the children are safe...thinking about self isn't the way to go in this one
Originally Posted by Mz K
is he lazy...? and if he is then there is an issue and taht could be why he got laid off...if he's putting in the necessary work to get the business going and there isn't anything he can do but wait...(guaranteed business will work) then why stress...other side of the coin...if he has nothing to do but play video games then he could pick up a part time job in the mean time and take some of the stress off of you...discussing with him the work you are putting in and being diplomatic might get your husband to understand instead of suffering silently...because you do seem to be suffering....but eh lol...so many sides to the coin...she could be right...or she could be over exaggerating....
the problem with answering any of these qeustions is there is no full picture only part of it...cause you cant apply the solutiokn to one situation to antoher....and even if my answers make sense they might not even apply to the situation...lol....meh i tried Click Me-update (A Letter to Hip-Hop)
 today the beginning creatively i explain to you dat creativity created me to fully understand..the meaning of man then you have to have a lady..a dame madame independent but she doesn't mind if you're holding her hand.. thought of the day: To be is to be...but allow everyone to be free |
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