Child + beau?

Shana B · Shana B

How do you tell someone you dont want them to meet your child without hurting their feelings... As child at that stage where she is asking for "daddy" and may get attached too easily
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MrCee · MrCee

You could've told me no

I'm kidding of course

Just be honest with your new guy and tell him....well you worded it perfectly....you don't want her getting any unnecessary attachments. If it starts getting somewhat serious then you can setup intros...

Mz K · Mz K

no matter how you say it if he is the kind to get offended he will be mad if he's naturally understanding person...then he wouldn't even ask just yet for the same reason you have....

Shana B · Shana B

He keeps askin and he is the type to get offended.... @ mc its kinda hard to talk to someone who always appear offline an don think to drop u a line
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Mz K · Mz K

then if he isn't dropping you a line why are you even caring?

Well you make the decision about who is more important...The dude who get easily offended or your baby girl

(you know you can send her my way...

i'll take care of her like my own. Her and Tj already loves each other lol)

Shana B · Shana B

Didnt say i cared jus makin a point... And ill never compare a man to my child especially not in importance
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Mz K · Mz K

i wasn't comparing either...I was just making a point...sorry

MrCee · MrCee

Why is he in such a rush to meet her and if he's gonna get easily offended by that then he's gonna be offended about everything else **warning warning**

Originally Posted by Shana B

@ mc its kinda hard to talk to someone who always appear offline an don think to drop u a line

Ouch

...I'm hardly on IM & when I am I always think you're busy or @ work so I don't want to bother you....

.....Hey you know you can Holla at me too

Shana B · Shana B

Again you always appear offline an half The time I don kno Who online...and yea he gon be offended alot an i wonderin wa the rush too cas i never ask to meet his child
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Shana B	post #1 07-20-2009, 06:27 AM
Dhaz Lone Ranger Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: In My Own Lil Worl Street Cred : 7 Posts: 14,093 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 43	Child + beau? How do you tell someone you dont want them to meet your child without hurting their feelings... As child at that stage where she is asking for "daddy" and may get attached too easily ____________________ Wirelessly Posted (ZTE-C78/1.0 SMIT-Browser/2.0.0)

MrCee	post #8 07-20-2009, 02:26 PM
Dhaz Supreme Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ny Street Cred : 5 Posts: 8,783 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 52	Why is he in such a rush to meet her and if he's gonna get easily offended by that then he's gonna be offended about everything else warning warning Originally Posted by Shana B @ mc its kinda hard to talk to someone who always appear offline an don think to drop u a line Ouch ...I'm hardly on IM & when I am I always think you're busy or @ work so I don't want to bother you.........Hey you know you can Holla at me too

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MrCee	post #2 07-20-2009, 07:48 AM
Dhaz Supreme Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ny Street Cred : 5 Posts: 8,783 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 52	You could've told me no I'm kidding of course Just be honest with your new guy and tell him....well you worded it perfectly....you don't want her getting any unnecessary attachments. If it starts getting somewhat serious then you can setup intros...

Mz K	post #3 07-20-2009, 08:30 AM
Dark Phoenix Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Can/usa Street Cred : 28 Posts: 40,871 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 42	no matter how you say it if he is the kind to get offended he will be mad if he's naturally understanding person...then he wouldn't even ask just yet for the same reason you have....

Shana B	post #4 07-20-2009, 12:13 PM
Dhaz Lone Ranger Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: In My Own Lil Worl Street Cred : 7 Posts: 14,093 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 43	He keeps askin and he is the type to get offended.... @ mc its kinda hard to talk to someone who always appear offline an don think to drop u a line ____________________ Wirelessly Posted (ZTE-C78/1.0 SMIT-Browser/2.0.0)

Mz K	post #5 07-20-2009, 12:17 PM
Dark Phoenix Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Can/usa Street Cred : 28 Posts: 40,871 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 42	then if he isn't dropping you a line why are you even caring? Well you make the decision about who is more important...The dude who get easily offended or your baby girl (you know you can send her my way... i'll take care of her like my own. Her and Tj already loves each other lol)

Shana B	post #6 07-20-2009, 12:26 PM
Dhaz Lone Ranger Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: In My Own Lil Worl Street Cred : 7 Posts: 14,093 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 43	Didnt say i cared jus makin a point... And ill never compare a man to my child especially not in importance ____________________ Wirelessly Posted (ZTE-C78/1.0 SMIT-Browser/2.0.0)

Mz K	post #7 07-20-2009, 12:34 PM
Dark Phoenix Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Can/usa Street Cred : 28 Posts: 40,871 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 42	i wasn't comparing either...I was just making a point...sorry

Shana B	post #9 07-20-2009, 03:25 PM
Dhaz Lone Ranger Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: In My Own Lil Worl Street Cred : 7 Posts: 14,093 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 43	Again you always appear offline an half The time I don kno Who online...and yea he gon be offended alot an i wonderin wa the rush too cas i never ask to meet his child ____________________ Wirelessly Posted (ZTE-C78/1.0 SMIT-Browser/2.0.0)