Giving and Receiving compliments

BlueSerenity · BlueSerenity

how do you feel about compliments..do you give them often... how do u handle receiving them....
i do give ppl compliments even strangers...and i gave someone a compliment today and i think she took it the wrong way though...

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but i dont believe in flattery...my compliments are real... if i see something that i like ill let it be known to the person...i dont see why not..
i find that most times women find it strange when i compliment them though...but most guys are ok with it even if they are taken a back by it...or blush...they still appreciate it..

so what about you...

Appletondon · Appletondon

I love complimenting women and receiving compliments from them I dont get bigheaded or nuthin but it just boosts your confidence a bit although u should already be self confident but a compliment here and there doesnt hurt, and i like complimenting women but dont like when sometimes they take it the wrong way like u tryin to get with them or disrespect them but its all good

had to be a blue subject

killa · killa

Alot of ppl love compliments it's human nature
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silence · silence

i hate compliments...people lie...[if i get a compliment it's almost as if the person never spoke if its something i can't see in myself]

i don't give compliments i tell you the truth....so if its something positive trust me...i could say someting just as negative in the same breath...so goes back to my earlier statement...i don like being lied to so i won't lie to anyone...it only brings a false sense of security until reallity sets in

and no i don't go around insulting people...id rather find a positive truth to say about someone than a negative...so long as its the truth...

Beefalicious · Beefalicious

i love giving compliments!!! n im real when i say it!!!! i love makin people smile or feel good about themselves!!!
Recieving compliments it depends on the day but too much compliments make me shy away!

Mz.Anonymous · Mz.Anonymous

i like to give and receive compliments too but like u said only if theyre real.but sometimes u dont know how to react.like sunday nite i was in church and this lady ive never met just came up to me and said,"I just wanted to tell u that u look like a doll".and i was kinda stuck because she didnt say anything else so i just said thank you,

MrCee · MrCee

When I do give a compliment its usually for something that really impressed me. I can accept a certain amount of compliments depending on the circumstance and the person. Too many genuine compliments would eventually embarass me.

Originally Posted by Mz.Anonymous

i like to give and receive compliments too but like u said only if theyre real.but sometimes u dont know how to react.like sunday nite i was in church and this lady ive never met just came up to me and said,"I just wanted to tell u that u look like a doll".and i was kinda stuck because she didnt say anything else so i just said thank you,

maybe she "liked" you

Mz.Anonymous · Mz.Anonymous

Originally Posted by MrCee

When I do give a compliment its usually for something that really impressed me. I can accept a certain amount of compliments depending on the circumstance and the person. Too many genuine compliments would eventually embarass me.

maybe she "liked" you

,,no i dont thinks so

BlueSerenity	post #1 09-25-2009, 03:38 PM
Lyrical Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Dhaz Street Cred : 22 Posts: 19,477 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 72	Giving and Receiving compliments how do you feel about compliments..do you give them often... how do u handle receiving them.... i do give ppl compliments even strangers...and i gave someone a compliment today and i think she took it the wrong way though..... but i dont believe in flattery...my compliments are real... if i see something that i like ill let it be known to the person...i dont see why not.. i find that most times women find it strange when i compliment them though...but most guys are ok with it even if they are taken a back by it...or blush...they still appreciate it.. so what about you...

silence	post #4 10-12-2009, 01:38 AM
Dhaz Addict Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: none of your business unless i tell you Street Cred : 3 Posts: 3,294 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 7	i hate compliments...people lie...[if i get a compliment it's almost as if the person never spoke if its something i can't see in myself] i don't give compliments i tell you the truth....so if its something positive trust me...i could say someting just as negative in the same breath...so goes back to my earlier statement...i don like being lied to so i won't lie to anyone...it only brings a false sense of security until reallity sets in and no i don't go around insulting people...id rather find a positive truth to say about someone than a negative...so long as its the truth... Last edited by silence; 10-12-2009 at 01:44 AM.

MrCee	post #7 10-20-2009, 02:31 AM
Dhaz Supreme Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Ny Street Cred : 5 Posts: 8,783 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 52	When I do give a compliment its usually for something that really impressed me. I can accept a certain amount of compliments depending on the circumstance and the person. Too many genuine compliments would eventually embarass me. Originally Posted by Mz.Anonymous i like to give and receive compliments too but like u said only if theyre real.but sometimes u dont know how to react.like sunday nite i was in church and this lady ive never met just came up to me and said,"I just wanted to tell u that u look like a doll".and i was kinda stuck because she didnt say anything else so i just said thank you, maybe she "liked" you

Mz.Anonymous	post #8 10-21-2009, 01:24 PM
Dhaz Addict Join Date: May 2005 Location: Bk Street Cred : 1 Posts: 6,276 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 13	Originally Posted by MrCee When I do give a compliment its usually for something that really impressed me. I can accept a certain amount of compliments depending on the circumstance and the person. Too many genuine compliments would eventually embarass me. maybe she "liked" you ,,no i dont thinks so

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Appletondon	post #2 09-25-2009, 03:46 PM
Dhaz Creepa Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Orlando,FL Street Cred : 3 Posts: 1,790 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 14	I love complimenting women and receiving compliments from them I dont get bigheaded or nuthin but it just boosts your confidence a bit although u should already be self confident but a compliment here and there doesnt hurt, and i like complimenting women but dont like when sometimes they take it the wrong way like u tryin to get with them or disrespect them but its all good had to be a blue subject

killa	post #3 09-25-2009, 10:48 PM
Co-administrator Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Canada Street Cred : 4 Posts: 21,951 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 30	Alot of ppl love compliments it's human nature ____________________ Wirelessly Posted (Mozilla/5.0 (iPhone; U; CPU iPhone OS 3_0 like Mac OS X; en-us) AppleWebKit/528.18 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0 Mobile/7A341 Safari/528.16)

Beefalicious	post #5 10-12-2009, 10:25 AM
Dhaz Star Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Lasalle,Qc Street Cred : 7 Posts: 15,239 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 13	i love giving compliments!!! n im real when i say it!!!! i love makin people smile or feel good about themselves!!! Recieving compliments it depends on the day but too much compliments make me shy away!

Mz.Anonymous	post #6 10-20-2009, 12:28 AM
Dhaz Addict Join Date: May 2005 Location: Bk Street Cred : 1 Posts: 6,276 Dhaz Dollarz: 500 Gifts: 13	i like to give and receive compliments too but like u said only if theyre real.but sometimes u dont know how to react.like sunday nite i was in church and this lady ive never met just came up to me and said,"I just wanted to tell u that u look like a doll".and i was kinda stuck because she didnt say anything else so i just said thank you,