[BlueSerenity]

so i took one of my male friends with me to this office to pick up some documents i needed...the minute we walked in he got the attention of the women in the office...so we sat down and the girl attending me started asking him little personal questions like what latin country he was from etc.and then she smiled and said that latin men were so hot...only then she looked at me and said is this your man..so i said no..and he laughed and said not yet...then she says to me well if you dont want him you can leave him right here...by then i was a little irritated because to me she was wasting my time with the convo instead of getting me the stuff i needed to pick up...so I turned away and whispered to him in spanish that seem a bit desperate......and he said i was just jealous...i dont think i was being jealous..i dont even look at him in that way...but now that bum is making fun of me telling our other mutual friends that i was jealous of him.....
anyway have u ever been jealous of a friend of the opposite sex or has one ever been jealous with you...what do u think its about..where does it come from...and do u think sometimes mistake our actions for jealousy..

[MrCee]

hmm...think he said that to see your reaction or to put that thought in your head like he's interested. Can males and females just be friends?

[BlueSerenity]

of course they can just be friends...most of my friends are males...and as far as this one is concerned, we dont see each other that way...he is just trying to get on my damn nerves...

[Extatique]

my best friend in high school was a dude...after we graduated he started well :: saying ish...that had me like ....uh...so out right one day he stated he liked me...it kinda freaked me out a lil...cause i didn't/don't c him in that light...n since then...all my male friends wanna jump on the same bad wagon......i think men n women can b friends...but after a while ish gets sticky...ppl. start catching feelings...

i would only get a lil tiny bite size jealous of a dude m feeling... but of a friend...no way...especially if we go way back...that would b kinda incesty ent it...::....

[Shana B]

k ....if its really jealousy thenmaybe that person likes the other more than they are letting on

In ur case i wud say its more like being protective.....some friends are like that

[Mz.Anonymous]

this happened to me at my bestfriends baby shower.the godfather and i were picking up some last minute stuff.the girl behind the counter kept staring at his arms and in his eyes instead of ringing up our stuff.my thing is if im with a dude i would just see it as direspectful if a girl started tryna talk to him unless she knew him already.she dont know if were together or not...

[killa]

Originally Posted by MrCee

hmm...think he said that to see your reaction or to put that thought in your head like he's interested. Can males and females just be friends?

Now with that last look you gave is the reason we can't
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[Mz. Bahamas]

i ga lie i have a few likes that i HATE to see them with anyone and i don't care if i'm withing someone one else i just HATE to see them with another bitch..
truth be told..
ex. my pookie he's a dancer and i HATE to see him whinning up on some hoe..
GRRRRRRRRRRRR he ain't mines no more but still *mouth drops open* just damn damn damn LEE him alone..

[BlueSerenity]

Originally Posted by Shana B

k ....if its really jealousy thenmaybe that person likes the other more than they are letting on

In ur case i wud say its more like being protective.....some friends are like that

i do believe that im a bit protective of all the ppl i care about...so yeh that part is true...but in this instance i really thought i was just stating the obvious when i told him she was a bit desperate...lol